At a fundraising dinner for a school that serves
children with learning disabilities, the father of
one of the students delivered a speech that would
never be forgotten by all who attended.. After
extolling the school and its
dedicated staff, he offered a question:
'When not interfered with by outside influences,
everything nature does, is done with perfection.”
Yet my son, Shay, cannot learn things as other
children do. He cannot understand things as other
children do. Where is the natural order of things in
my son?' The audience was stilled by the query.
The father continued. 'I believe that when a child
like Shay, who was mentally and physically disabled
comes into the world, an opportunity to realize true
human nature presents itself, and it comes in the
way other people treat that child.'
Then he told the following story:
Shay and I had walked past a park where some boys
Shay knew were playing baseball. Shay asked, 'Do you
think they'll let me play?' I knew that most of the
boys would not want someone like Shay on their team,
but as a father I also understood that if my son
were allowed to play, it would give him a
much-needed sense of belonging and some confidence
to be accepted by others in spite of his handicaps.
I
approached one of the boys on the field and asked
(not expecting much) if Shay could play. The boy
looked around for guidance and said, 'We're losing
by six runs and the game is in the eighth inning. I
guess he can be on our team and we'll try to put him
in to bat in the ninth inning.'
Shay struggled over to the team's bench and, with a
broad smile, put on a team shirt. I watched with a
small tear in my eye and warmth in my heart. The
boys saw my joy at my son being accepted.
In the bottom of the eighth inning, Shay's team
scored a few runs but was still behind by three.
In the top of the ninth inning, Shay put on a glove
and played in the right field. Even though no hits
came his way, he was obviously ecstatic just to be
in the game and on the field, grinning from ear to
ear as I waved to him from the stands.
In the bottom of the ninth inning, Shay's team
scored again. Now, with two outs and the bases
loaded, the potential winning run was on base and
Shay was scheduled to be next at bat.
At this juncture, do they let Shay bat and give away
their chance to win the game? Surprisingly, Shay was
given the bat. Everyone knew that a hit was all but
impossible because Shay didn't even know how to hold
the bat properly, much less connect with the ball.
However, as Shay stepped up to the plate, the
pitcher, recognizing that the other team was putting
winning aside for this moment in Shay's life, moved
in a few steps to lob the ball in softly so Shay
could at least make contact.
The first pitch came and Shay swung clumsily and
missed.
The pitcher again took a few steps forward to toss
the ball softly towards Shay.
As the pitch came in, Shay swung at the ball and hit
a slow ground ball right back to the pitcher. The
game would now be over. The pitcher picked up the
soft grounder and could have easily thrown the ball
to the first baseman.
Shay would have been out and that would have been
the end of the game. Instead, the pitcher threw the
ball right over the first baseman's head, out of
reach of all team mates. Everyone from the stands
and both teams started yelling, 'Shay, run to first!
Run to first!'
Never in his life had Shay ever run that far, but he
made it to first base. He scampered down the
baseline, wide-eyed and startled. Everyone yelled,
'Run to second, run to second!' Catching his breath,
Shay awkwardly ran towards second, gleaming and
struggling to make it to the base.
By the time Shay rounded towards second base, the
right fielder had the ball . The smallest guy on
their team who now had his first chance to be the
hero for his team.
He could have thrown the ball to the second-baseman
for the tag, but he understood the pitcher's
intentions so he, too, intentionally threw the ball
high and far over the third-baseman's head.
Shay ran toward third base deliriously as the
runners ahead of him circled the bases toward home.
All were screaming, 'Shay, Shay, Shay, All the Way
Shay'
Shay reached third base because the opposing
shortstop ran to help him by turning him in the
direction of third base, and shouted, 'Run to third!
Shay, run to third!'
As Shay rounded third, the boys from both teams, and
the spectators, were on their feet screaming, 'Shay,
run home! Run home!' Shay ran to home, stepped on
the plate, and was cheered as the hero who hit the
grand slam and won the game for his team.
'That day', said the father softly with tears now
rolling down his face, 'the boys from both teams
helped bring a piece of true love and humanity into
this world'.
Shay didn't make it to another summer. He died that
winter, having never forgotten being the hero and
making me so happy, and coming home and seeing his
Mother tearfully embrace her little hero of the day!